8:00 – 8:45 a.m.
CHECK-IN & CONTINENTAL BREAKFAST
8:45 – 9:00 a.m.
WELCOME & INTRODUCTION
Institute Chair Rana S. Alexander
9:00 a.m. – 12:30 p.m.
MORNING PLENARY SESSIONS
9:00 – 9:45 a.m.
Minnesota and the Future of Same-Sex Marriage
Dale Carpenter
9:45 – 10:30 a.m.
Three Snapshots – The Intersection of Family Law and Three Related
Practice Areas
Medical Assistance
Jeffrey Schmidt & Mark Anderson
Orders for Protection and Harassment Restraining Orders
Rana S. Alexander
Child Protection
Judge Anne K. McKeig & Marian E. Saksena
10:30 – 10:45 a.m.
BREAK
10:45 – 11:45 a.m.
The Affordable Care Act and Its Impact on MN Family Law – What We Know
and Don’t Yet Know
Insights from government representatives, experienced family lawyers and
a Legal Aid lawyer on the impact of the Affordable Care Act on family
law practice including child support, taxes and more.
James W. Donehower, Sonja Trom Eayrs, Commissioner Lucinda E. Jesson &
Ralonda Mason
Gary A. Debele, moderator
11:45 a.m. – 12:30 p.m.
A Framework for Identifying, Understanding and Accounting for Domestic
Violence in Family Law Settings
So, somebody in your case says there’s been domestic abuse. What are you
supposed to do? This presentation will offer a detailed description of a
framework for identifying, understanding and accounting for the nature,
context and implications of domestic violence. It will provide practical
guidance on how to apply the framework in various family law settings.
At the conclusion of this session, participants will be better able to:
Utilize the framework to improve their understanding of their clients’
domestic violence-related issues and concerns; Apply the framework in
their family law practice; Respond to domestic violence-related issues
in a more effective manner.
Gabrielle Davis & Loretta M. Frederick
12:30 – 1:30 p.m.
INSTITUTE LUNCHEON
provided by Minnesota CLE
1:30 – 2:30 p.m.
BREAKOUT SESSION A
101
Overview of Your First Divorce
2-hour session
Scope of representation; Overview of the divorce process; Who does what?
– Identifying the players in a family court proceeding; Alternative
dispute resolution in Minnesota family law Cases; What law applies and
where do you find it? Key legal resources for the family law
practitioner; Introduction to the John and Jane Doe divorce
hypothetical.
Zachary A. Kretchmer & Scott M. Rodman
102
2014 Social Science Update: What the Latest Research Tells Us About Kids
and Parenting
Mindy Mitnick explains the relevance of the latest research on custody
arrangements, the impact of domestic violence on parents and children,
and the relationships between divorce and children’s mental and physical
health.
Mindy F. Mitnick
103
Making Sense of Employee Stock Programs: NQSOs, ISOs, RSUs, ESOPs and
ESPPs
Distinguishing and understanding employee stock programs can be
confusing. This session will provide resources for managing your case
and advising your clients in the division of these assets. It will also
explore ways in which you can use a financial expert during the divorce
process and to coordinate the post-decree logistics of exercising stock
options, etc. awarded to a non-employee spouse after the divorce is
finalized.
Terryl Johnson, Elizabeth L. Juelich & Perry S. Long
Sherri L. Krueger, moderator
104
Antenuptial Agreements in Same-Sex Marriages
With Minnesota finally recognizing same-sex marriage as an option for
our clients, the presentation will address issues for you to consider in
drafting antenuptial agreements for those couples who have had a
long-term domestic partnership prior to the date of marriage.
Rebecca Heltzer & Melissa Houghtaling
105
7 Things Every Family Lawyer Should Know About Medical Assistance
Mark Anderson & Jeffrey Schmidt
106
Diving Deeper Into the Retirement Benefits Pool
Tom Hughes will lead a discussion of unique considerations when dividing
governmental and other pensions. Plans discussed will include federal
and state employee retirement plans (FERS, CSRS, MSRS, TSP, PERA),
military retired pay, railroad retirement benefits and union sponsored
plans. Common misperceptions and how a family law lawyer should analyze
benefit statements will be examined.
Thomas M. Hughes
107
ListServ Live Open Forum: Child Support
A star of the Family Law ListServ tackles your toughest questions in
this open forum on child support.
Sandra M. Torgerson
108
Temporary Relief Hearings: How to Best Use Them If You Can Get One, and
What to Do If You Can’t
What types of cases need temporary relief? Why is there judicial
resistance in some counties to conducting these hearings? What can
attorneys do to get a hearing date, and then prompt relief after the
hearing? How can you obtain relief for your client if the judge won’t
conduct a hearing? The panel will address these questions, and also
provide strategies for preparing for temporary hearings, including what
to, and what not to, include in your temporary pleadings.
Jill I. Frieders, Brook R. Mallak & Judge Gary R. Schurrer
Elizabeth B. Bryant, moderator
2:30 – 2:45 p.m.
BREAK
2:45 – 3:45 p.m.
BREAKOUT SESSION B
Overview of Your First Divorce, continued
201
The Impact of the Haefele Case on Child Support for Business Owners
The Supreme Court’s decision in
Haefele v. Haefele changed the landscape
in child support litigation involving owners of closely-held businesses.
In this discussion moderated by financial expert Stephen Dennis, the
family law attorneys involved in the case, Vija Brookshire and Alan
Eidsness, take an in-depth look at the meaning of the decision and its
impact on business owners.
Vija L. Brookshire & Alan C. Eidsness
Stephen G. Dennis, moderator
202
Navigating Short-Sales and Foreclosures in 2014
Short-sales and foreclosures have become common in divorces. Get an
update on where things are and an outlook on future trends, including:
Key differences between short-sales and foreclosures; Tax implications
after 2013; The effect of each process on a client’s credit and ability
to purchase a new home; Strategies for your divorcing clients.
Amy Jensen Wolff
203
Custody and Parentage for Same-Sex Couples: Legal Issues, Litigation
Strategies and the New Gender Neutral Marriage Law
This presentation will address the unique legal issues facing same-sex
couples in building families and transitioning those families when a
relationship ends, with a particular focus on the impact of the new
gender neutral marriage law in Minnesota.
Mary Pat Byrn & Gary A. Debele
204
7 Things Every Family Lawyer Should Know About
OFPs and HROs
Rana S. Alexander
205
Beware the Karon Clause!
Learn the ins and outs of the Karon waiver based upon the legal
precedent set in Karon v. Karon, 435 N.W.2d 501 (Minn. 1989)
and participate in an interactive discussion of effective and
ineffective Karon waivers. Learn how to draft a waiver of the statutory
right to modification of spousal maintenance that will withstand
judicial scrutiny. Discover how damages might be calculated if a Karon waiver
is determined to be legally-deficient and what to do about it.
John Rob Hill & Steven P. Katkov
206
ListServ Live Open Forum: Bankruptcy and Divorce
Two stars of the Family Law ListServ tackle your toughest questions in
this open forum on bankruptcy and divorce.
Rebecca S. Christensen & Sean P. Stokes
207
Good Answers to 15 Weird Questions From Clients
Join two experienced family lawyers for an interactive discussion that
will help you answer some of the weird questions that you might
occasionally hear from your family law clients.
Cheryl M. Prince & Barbara J. Runchey
3:45 – 4:00 p.m.
BREAK
4:00 – 5:00 p.m.
BREAKOUT SESSION C
301
Your First Divorce: The Initial Client Interview and Property Division
Joani C. Moberg & Melissa J. Nilsson
302
10 Questions and Answers About E-Filing and E-Courts
The Chief Judge of the Fourth Judicial District will answer the ten
questions most frequently asked by family lawyers about E-Filing and
E-Courts.
Chief Judge Peter A. Cahill
303
Walking the Neutral Tightrope
The use of neutral financial experts has become a common practice.
However, unless the engagement is handled carefully, the value of the
neutral financial expert can be lost. What are the specific issues to
address? This session will identify the “best practices” for using a
financial neutral. Also covered will be specific issues that can arise
in neutral engagements in the areas of business valuation, non-marital
tracing, forensic analysis, and cash flow projections.
Rachel M. Flaskey & Thomas W. Harjes
304
Income Tax, Estate Tax and Related Planning in Light of Minnesota’s New
Civil Marriage Law
Minnesota’s New Civil Marriage Law means significant changes for
same-sex couples who now have the opportunity to marry. This session
will explore the benefits and burdens associated with marriage and how
to help your client decide if “I do” is right for them.
Michelle L. Rehbein & Shane Swanson
305
7 Things Every Family Lawyer Should Know About Child Protection
Judge Anne K. McKeig & Marian E. Saksena
306
Dissipation, Depletion and Depreciation: Defining the Differences
Dissipation, depletion and depreciation claims can be valuable tools in
divorce. The presenters will describe the important differences among
them, discuss recent case law involving them, and share strategies for
pursuing each type of claim.
Jana Aune Deach, Perry S. Long & James J. Vedder
307
ListServ Live Open Forum: Retirement Benefits
A star of the Family Law ListServ tackles your toughest questions in
this open forum on retirement benefits.
Thomas M. Hughes
308
How to Help Your Clients Move on From Divorce
This presentation will address how to assess the loss of family your
client is experiencing, strategies for leading clients through
transition, managing client fears, and understanding the importance of
parental leadership. Presenters will also demonstrate applications of
techniques.
Michael Borowiak & Lori Thibodeau
5:00 – 5:45 p.m.
JOIN US FOR THE
INSTITUTE RECEPTION
All 2014 Family Law Institute attendees are invited to stay for
refreshments, snacks and conversation with faculty, colleagues and
friends.
Reception sponsored
by

8:30 – 9:00 a.m.
CONTINENTAL BREAKFAST
Breakfast sponsored by

9:00 – 11:45 a.m.
(includes 15-minute break)
MAIN PLENARY SESSION
The Eugene L. Kubes Annual Case Law and Legislative Update
A comprehensive and indispensable review of the most important cases and
the latest legislation, issues and trends in family law.
Michael D. Dittberner, Jaime Driggs, Zachary A. Kretchmer, Dana K.
McKenzie, Melissa J. Nilsson, Suzanne M. Remington & Jennifer Sommerfeld
ALTERNATE PLENARY SESSION
Elimination of Bias: Understanding Problem Gambling and Its Impact on
Family Law
2.5 elimination of bias credits applied for
One Lawyer’s Story
Hear a riveting true story of how a successful lawyer spent over
$1,600,000 of his client’s trust account funds on his gambling addiction
and ultimately went to jail. His story is not all that unusual as many
lawyers (and their clients) are affected by a gambling disease. Mr.
Burke recounts his journey from successful lawyer and respected
community member to a gambling addict serving time in prison for
stealing client funds.
Michael J. Burke
Problem Gambling in Minnesota: Issues for Family Lawyers and Clients
Michael Burke and three panelists share advice for recognizing addictive
behavior in your family law clients. Learn what to look for, what you
can do, and what resources, including treatment, are available for them.
Ryan D. Anderson, Joan Bibelhausen, Michael J. Burke & Mary B. Magnuson
11:45 a.m. – 1:00 p.m.
INSTITUTE LUNCHEON
provided by Minnesota CLE
1:00 – 2:00 p.m.
BREAKOUT SESSION D
401
Your First Divorce: Spousal Maintenance and Child Custody and Parenting
Time
Joani C. Moberg & Melissa J. Nilsson
402
Spousal Maintenance, Child Support and Asset Division for Parents of a
Disabled Child: Reasons to Deviate
When a child who has a disability is involved in a dissolution
proceeding, there may be many reasons to deviate from child support
guidelines and from general assumptions about spousal maintenance and
property division. This presentation will include specific fact
scenarios that will illustrate how these factors could result in an
upward (or downward) deviation for child support, higher spousal
maintenance, or an unequal property division. The fact scenarios will
also be used to demonstrate how to best meet the needs of a child who
has a disability by ensuring that the child has appropriate financial
resources available throughout his or her lifetime AND is eligible to
receive government benefits. Meeting the needs of a child who has a
disability – now and in the future – is often the primary goal for
divorcing parents of a child who has special needs. This presentation
will help family law attorneys meet that goal.
Amy Dawson
403
Avoiding the 7 Most Common Pitfalls to Getting Enforceable Child Support
Orders
This session will provide tips to avoid the 7 most common pitfalls to
getting enforceable child support orders for your clients. Some of your
clients will end up representing themselves on their child support cases
after you get an order for them, so it is very important for the order
you get for them to be clear. Some of the issues that will be discussed
will be ensuring that paternity is properly addressed for children not
born during marriage, showing your math, and not being too creative with
language. Audience members will receive helpful handouts, hints, and
have an opportunity to ask their difficult questions to three
experienced Assistant County Attorneys.
Dorrie Estebo & Theresa Farrell-Strauss
Melissa Rossow, moderator
404
Military Law and Benefits for Same-Sex Couples in Family Law Cases
How does the United States Supreme Court case, U.S. vs. Windsor, which
struck down the Defense of Marriage Act, and Minnesota’s House Bill H.F.
Number 1054 affect same-sex military couples in Minnesota? What
Department of Defense benefits are extended to same-sex partners? Join
two military law experts for answers to these questions and discussion
of military law and regulations affecting same-sex couples.
Johanna Clyborne & Captain Lyndsey Olson
405
Recent Case Law and Trends in Spousal Maintenance
A close look at recent Minnesota and national case law dealing with
maintenance issues and commentary on emerging trends relating to
amounts, payment terms and settlements. The discussion will be preceded
by audience voting on hypothetical maintenance scenarios.
Patrick McCullough, Robert E. Oliphant & Courtney Pedersen-Louis
406
Parenting in the Context of Coercive Control
Building on the plenary presentation, this practical, interactive
workshop offers guidance to family law professionals on identifying,
understanding and accounting for the effects of coercive controlling
abuse on parenting and co-parenting. It explores what it can be like to
parent, co-parent and be parented in the context of coercive control. As
a result of this workshop, participants will be better able to:
Recognize and distinguish the main characteristics of
coercive-controlling abuse, violent resistance, and other forms of
intimate partner abuse; Employ a context-based approach to evaluate
parenting and co-parenting by abusive and abused parents and their
effects on children; Develop concrete parenting recommendations that
account for the parenting implications of coercive-controlling abuse.
Gabrielle Davis & Loretta M. Frederick
407
Elimination of Bias: Understanding Problem Gambling and Its Impact on
Family Law
2-hour session
2.0 elimination of bias credits applied for
First Hour: One Lawyer’s Story
Hear a riveting true story of how a successful lawyer spent over
$1,600,000 of his client’s trust account funds on his gambling addiction
and ultimately went to jail. His story is not all that unusual as many
lawyers (and their clients) are affected by a gambling disease. Mr.
Burke recounts his journey from successful lawyer and respected
community member to a gambling addict serving time in prison for
stealing client funds.
Michael J. Burke
Second Hour: Problem Gambling in Minnesota – Issues for Family Lawyers
and Clients
Michael Burke and three panelists share advice for recognizing addictive
behavior in your family law clients. Learn what to look for, what you
can do, and what resources, including treatment, are available for them.
Ryan D. Anderson, Joan Bibelhausen, Michael J. Burke & Mary B. Magnuson
408
9 Traps to Avoid When Settling a Divorce Case
Don’t make the oh-so-common mistakes! You’ll learn what the 9 traps are
and how to avoid them, including taxes, retirement, credit score
problems and real property problems to name just a few!
Jason C. Kohlmeyer
409
Forecast Calls for Clouds: How to Ethically Use the Cloud
1.0 ethics credit applied for
Learn how to securely, ethically and efficiently implement cloud-based
software into your family law practice.
Matt Spiegel
Session sponsored by

2:00 – 2:15 p.m.
BREAK
2:15 – 3:15 p.m.
BREAKOUT SESSION E
Understanding Problem Gambling, continued
501
Your First Divorce: Determining Child Support and Tax Issues in the
Typical Divorce
Lisa T. Spencer & James J. Vedder
502
Special Needs Planning in Divorce and Custody Cases: Dealing With
Children’s SSI and Special and Supplemental Needs Trusts
Amy Dawson & Karen T. Kugler
503
Child Support and Expedited Process Panel
2-hour session
Navigating Families in Crisis Through the Affordable Care Act
Magistrate Steven J. Running
Deviations from the Child Support Guidelines – Getting the Order Right
Magistrate Sangeeta Jain
The County Already Has a Child Support Order in Place – How Will This
Affect My New Custody or Dissolution Case?
Sarah E. Winge
The Role of Private Counsel in the Expedited Process
Paul W. Clabo
Magistrate Jan Craig Nelson, moderator
504
5 Unresolved Issues for Same-Sex Couples
Same-sex marriage was legalized in Minnesota in 2013, but many issues
remain unresolved. This panel will focus on five such issues, including
interstate and international recognition of same-sex marriage; how to
determine the date of marriage for marital property and maintenance
purposes; taxes for same-sex couples; and more.
Valerie Arnold, Susan Minsberg & Karen Sandler Steinert
Rana S. Alexander, moderator
505
What Does the Reasonable Preference of the Child Mean for Custody
Purposes?
Susan J. Mundahl & Tifanne E.E. Wolter
506
The Staggering Costs of Childhood Trauma: Legal Responses to Improve
Outcomes
Repeated exposure to traumatic events can significantly disrupt child
development and lead to life span consequences including early death. As
a follow-up on last year’s session on Adverse Childhood Experiences, a
January 2014 pilot project developed practical techniques for family
court interventions. Your expert presenters will expand on these and
other practices for incorporating a trauma-informed perspective in your
practice.
Chris Bray & Saprina Matheny
507
Tying Up Loose Ends: A Checklist for Addressing the Final Details of a
Divorce
A divorce isn’t over when the judgment and decree is signed. Attend this
session for a review of important post-divorce tasks; including real
estate transfers, vehicle title transfers, changing life insurance
beneficiary designations, updating estate plans, name changes, and more.
Thomas Tuft
508
Why Law Firm Websites are Designed to Fail – and How to Appeal to the
Legal Consumer
When evaluated against their potential in a given market, many law firm
websites create less – sometimes far less – business impact than they
could if they were constructed more effectively. Too often they are
built to satisfy the needs of the attorneys and not the legal consumers
they are targeting. This presentation will explore how law firms must
appeal to the psychology of consumers to design websites that focus on
converting visitors into paying clients.
Michael Owen Hill
Session sponsored by

3:15 – 3:30 p.m.
BREAK
3:30 – 4:30 p.m.
BREAKOUT SESSION F
Child Support and Expedited Process Panel, continued
601
Your First Divorce: Strategies for Working With Challenging Clients and
Common Ethical Traps for the Family Law Attorney
0.5 ethics credit applied for
Lisa T. Spencer & James J. Vedder
602
Autism in Family Law
This panel of autism and family law experts will discuss the unique
issues presented by autism in the family law context, focusing on how
evaluators, attorneys, and guardians can make child-focused decisions
for children with unique and often expensive medical needs.
Michael Borowiak, Amy Dawson, Heather Helmer & Referee Timothy Mulrooney
Emily K. Cooper, moderator
603
Preparing Your Practice for Same-Sex Clients: How to Dismantle Your Own
Closet
How do you best represent a GLBT family law client? This breakout
session will explore the issues with which lawyers should become
familiar, including the impact of the struggle to legalize same-sex
marriage; unique gender roles; unique legal issues; and knowing when to
call in legal and non-legal specialists.
Jerry A. Burg, Trisha Falvey & Melissa Houghtaling
Susan Minsberg, moderator
604
9 Mistakes Family Lawyers Make in Appeals…and How to Avoid Them
Learn how to avoid the most common mistakes made in preparing,
perfecting, and presenting family law appeals from the chief attorney of
the Minnesota Court of Appeals.
Cynthia L. Lehr
605
OFPs in Tribal Court: How to Best Represent Your Client
Tribal courts can provide additional protections for victims of domestic
violence that consider safety in a cultural context and represent
cultural values and considerations for your client under a sovereign
nation. This workshop will explore the breadth of tribal codes in
Minnesota and how you can be licensed to provide representation for
Native clients in tribal courts.
Daniel D. Morris, Cody B. Nelson & Lonna Stevens-Hunter
606
The Art of Crafting a Judgment and Decree
It can be an invaluable benefit to your client after the divorce is over
to have a meticulously crafted Judgment and Decree, as such care can
sometimes avoid post-decree litigation and acrimony. This practical
workshop will focus on best practice for drafting Findings of Fact and
Conclusions of Law in a Judgment and Decree, while pointing out pitfalls
to avoid in areas such as division of retirement assets and personal
property, Karon waivers and reviews of spousal maintenance and Parenting
Consultant appointment language.
Michael C. Black & J. Lee Novelli